Five Things I Wish Every Woman Knew Before Trying to Conceive

by | Jul 21, 2026 | Fertility, Preparing for Pregnancy

When many women decide they would like to have a baby, they assume conception will happen quickly and naturally. Whilst this is certainly true for some couples, for others the journey can take longer than expected.

One of the most empowering things about preconception care is that there are many factors we can optimise before pregnancy occurs. Small changes made in the months before conception can have a meaningful impact on fertility, pregnancy outcomes and the health of your future baby.

1. Fertility Begins Long Before Pregnancy

Many women start thinking about nutrition once they see a positive pregnancy test. In reality, the months before conception are incredibly important.

Egg maturation takes approximately three months. This means the food you eat, the nutrients you consume and the lifestyle choices you make today may influence the eggs that will be ovulated in the months ahead.

This is why I often recommend beginning fertility preparation at least three months before actively trying to conceive.

2. Blood Sugar Balance Matters More Than Most People Realise

Blood sugar regulation influences hormone balance, ovulation and overall reproductive health.

Even in women without diabetes, frequent blood sugar spikes and crashes can affect energy, cravings and hormonal signalling.

Simple strategies such as prioritising protein at breakfast, including healthy fats with meals and reducing reliance on ultra-processed snacks can make a significant difference.

3. Not All Prenatal Supplements Are Created Equal

Walking into a pharmacy can be overwhelming. There are hundreds of supplements marketed towards women trying to conceive.

Whilst folate is essential, it is not the only nutrient that matters.

Vitamin D, choline, iodine, iron, omega-3 fats and other key nutrients all play important roles before and during pregnancy. The right supplement plan should be tailored to your individual needs and health history.

4. Your Partner’s Health Matters Too

Male fertility contributes to approximately half of fertility challenges.

Sperm quality is influenced by nutrition, lifestyle, sleep, alcohol intake, smoking status and overall health.

When I work with couples, I often encourage both partners to make positive changes together.

5. Fertility Is About More Than Food

Nutrition is a powerful foundation, but fertility is influenced by many interconnected factors.

Sleep, stress, movement, environmental exposures, medical history and underlying health conditions can all play a role.

The goal is not perfection. The goal is creating the healthiest environment possible for conception and pregnancy.

Final Thoughts

If you’re planning to start trying for a baby, the best time to optimise your health is now.

Whether you’re just beginning your fertility journey, preparing for IVF or looking to improve your chances of conception naturally, personalised nutrition and lifestyle support can help you move forward with confidence.

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I’m a fertility, pregnancy and postpartum nutritionist, sharing evidence-based nutrition advice, practical guidance and nourishing recipes to support you throughout your journey to motherhood.

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